Anniversary Gift Milestones - Traditional, Modern and Unique

Celebrating anniversary milestones is an age-old tradition that allows couples to celebrate their time together, allowing an opportunity to show each other their appreciation and that all important chance to reflect on their time together and what the future might hold.

Whether you are in a couple celebrating the day you committed your lives to each other, or whether you are seeking to purchase a gift for a couple reaching an awesome anniversary milestone, selecting an appropriate anniversary gift can be a daunting task. Many seek gifting inspiration associated with the number of years of marriage and did you know that there are both traditional and modern routes aligned with this. Choosing a themed anniversary gift tied to the number of years you've been married isn't just a tradition of late – it's got roots stretching back to the Middle Ages!

Each year’s milestone is as important as the one previous and the ones to come, so whether your newlyweds or celebrating decades of marriage, acknowledging these milestones is essential in nurturing your relationship.

What is interesting is that when you check the traditional wedding anniversary themes, you'll find materials like paper, tin and wool, which were all historically common. On the other hand, the modern day and more contemporary list features items such as desk sets and appliances. Whether you choose to follow the traditional themes or the more modern approach, it does give some great inspiration into what to buy in order to mark the momentous occasion.

The first thing to consider is what milestones are we to celebrate? In short, that’s down to you. There is no right and wrong when it comes to celebrating what is important to you, but there are more obvious landmark anniversaries such as the first and then usually in 5 or 10 year interludes from that point on. Whilst we think every year is important, we have a look at the first 5 years of marriage and the subsequent 5 yearly milestones couples hit and taken inspiration from the modern and traditional gifting themes to take some of the hard work out of your gift giving exploration and of course to keep in your other half’s good books!

1^st Year Anniversary – Paper / Clocks

I’m sure there are many theories or interpretations of why paper represents the first year of married bliss. Many suggest it represents a blank slate from which to build on and some suggest it’s a blank page in which to write your story together. I like the romanticism of it being a slightly fragile material that symbolises how delicate early marriage can be. The clock link seems to show the passing of time and how precious time can be.

In celebration of this, a unique gift experience would be the Paper Plant making. Join us for a delightful paper plant crafting workshop, designed to provide a few hours of relaxation and creativity. Unleash your artistic talents as you each craft a stunning piece to adorn your home or to gift to someone special. If you are looking for something with a modern take, maybe they might like to go up against the clock in a highspeed thrill lap in a supercar! Drive amazing supercars and clock the fastest lap!

2^nd Year Anniversary – Cotton / China

The link between cotton and the celebration of two years together represents how marriage brings a couple together. I also like the idea that Cotton is both flexible but sturdy, therefore reflecting in the relationships strength but adaptability. The modern take on this is China and for me this offers a reflection of how delicate supposed new relationships can be and how carefully it needs to be handled.

As a gifting choice, you could encourage your recipients to host their very own afternoon tea by dusting off the fine china from out of the depths of the cupboard and provide them with this stunning Afternoon Tea Hamper. This afternoon tea hamper comes presented in a lovely wooden tray and is full of delicious sweet treats like biscuits, muffins and fudge as well as the all-important tea.

3^rd Year Anniversary – Leather / Crystal or Glass.

Supple yet resilient, leather epitomises the strength of a lasting union. Marking the third anniversary, it's chosen as the traditional gift with purpose. By this stage, your bond is solidified, learning, and adapting to each other’s needs. The modern take of Crystal or Glass is significant in its representation of clarity and transparency, required in any relationship. It is also thought it shows the beauty and fragility of a relatively new union.

Tapping into the leather tradition, you could gift a hands-on Leather Book Workshop, the perfect gift to scrap book all your memories pre and post ceremony. The studio is fully equipped and welcoming to beginners with no prior experience necessary. Led by a master craftsman, you'll have the opportunity to select from a range of bridle and saddlery leathers in different colours. From there, you'll be guided through the process of designing, decorating, measuring, cutting, stitching, and finishing your own personalised book cover.

You may also want to consider the modern take on the gifting methodology by looking at this stunning Exclusive Glass Blowing Experience. Immerse yourself in the mesmerising process of heating molten glass in an 1100-degree furnace, using historical hand-forged tools to gather and shape your glass, and finally, breathe life into your creations by blowing and forming them. There'll be step-by-step demonstrations with hands-on guidance, so each group member can try their hand at glassblowing.

DID YOU KNOW? Yearly Anniversary Gifts can also be represented by Gem Stones or Precious Metals:

4^th Year Anniversary – Fruit or Flowers / Appliances

A fitting sentiment to show a relationship in full bloom, fruit of flowers is a traditional gift associated with a 4^thYear Anniversary. I like the romanticism that it shows married life is vibrant, colourful and full of life. I personally feel the modern take on this is a little less romantic in its approach, appliances. Whilst I understand the symbology of longevity and dependability of what the appliances are meant to represent, I can’t help feeling a kitchen appliance or hoover might not be the best step forward in your relatively new marriage!

What could be sweeter smelling than florals and fruits than designing your very own fragrance? The perfume stylist will give you the opportunity to see their exclusive perfume blends and sample each one. You can then learn the process of blending your own signature fragrance with each chosen blend ranging from floral, fruity zing or a more contemporary choice.

5^th Year Anniversary – Wood / Silverware

Wood symbolises stability and strength in the context of an anniversary milestone, reflecting the enduring and solid foundation of a marriage. While traditional gifts like wooden furniture are commonly chosen, thinking outside the box can lead to more meaningful and unique choices. For instance, exploring the world of woodworking through a beginners' course can provide a hands-on and enjoyable experience for both partners, fostering creativity and collaboration. Thus, exploring unconventional yet thoughtful gift ideas like this Woodworking For Beginners can add depth and significance to the celebration of a meaningful milestone.

10^th Year Anniversary – Tin / Diamond Jewellery

A huge milestone in any relationship or new coupling, the 10-year anniversary. A whole decade of married life! The modern take on the 10-year anniversary tradition is Diamond Jewellery, so now might be the ideal time to upgrade those engagement gifts?

On the more traditional approach we have tin, a very durable metal, and is represented by the strength and durability needed to sustain a long marriage.

What is better than time spent with your loved one, and this hands on experience invites you to craft your own unique letters and shapes out of recycled tin cans, which can be proudly displayed at home, transforming any wall space. This Letter Making Workshop really is the gift that keeps on giving. GEMSTONE: DIAMOND

Did you know these interesting Factoids around Anniversaries and how we celebrate them?

Fun Fact: In the Commonwealth, a couple can request a greeting in writing from the British monarch to celebrate their 60th, 65th, and 70th wedding anniversary.

Fun Fact: The historic origins of wedding anniversaries date back to the Holy Roman Empire, when husbands crowned their wives with a silver wreath on their twenty-fifth anniversary, and a gold wreath on the fiftieth.

Fun Fact: Worldwide, countries have varying symbolic references to mark each yearly occasion. For example, the 4^th year in the UK is Fruit and Flowers whereas in the US its Linen or Silk.

15^th Year Anniversary – Crystal / Watches

It is fascinating how crystal becomes more than just a material when it comes to celebrating the 15th wedding anniversary? It's like each angle tells a story of the enduring love and beauty that has blossomed over the years.

Beyond its stunning appearance, crystal holds a deeper meaning for couples. It's a gentle reminder to handle their relationship with the utmost care, just like how one would handle something delicate and precious. Much like the way light dances through its transparent surface, honesty and openness illuminate the path to a stronger, more resilient partnership.

Get the happy couple to polish off them crystal fizz flutes as they are going to need them with this fabulous Gift Hamper. This gift hamper is simplicity at its very best, a bottle of luxurious Bouvet-Ladubay Saumur Brut sparkling wine and a box of decadent Belgian chocolates. The perfect elegant gift for any celebratory occasion!

Made from sustainably-sourced ingredients and packaged in eco-friendly materials, you can give the gift of opulence, guilt free! GEMSTONE: RUBY

20^th Year Anniversary – China / Platinum

For a 20th wedding anniversary, the customary gift is china. While it might appear unconventional, it symbolises the elegance and fragility of an enduring marriage. Additionally, it serves as a reminder of the perseverance and fortitude essential for sustaining a thriving relationship over twenty years.

For those considering contemporary themes, platinum is an ideal choice for a 20th anniversary gift. Symbolising endurance and resilience, this metal embodies the strength and timelessness of a lasting marriage.

To reflect the traditional take on gifting, the china could be represented by a Classic Afternoon Tea, served in beautiful vintage china. Imagine yourself transported to a quaint 1950s-style diner, adorned with retro decorations. It's the ideal backdrop for indulging in a delightful afternoon tea experience, featuring a tantalising array of treats.

Picture freshly baked scones adorned with generous dollops of jam and cream, an assortment of delicate sandwiches, and a selection of exquisite cakes and pastries, all elegantly presented on authentic vintage china.

If you are wanting to tackle the Platinum gifting inspiration, what better way to mark the occasion than to provide the happy couple with this Platinum Couples Photoshoot. Encapsulate an image of you and your loved one forever with this fantastic Couples Photoshoot experience. Whether it’s for an anniversary or you’re just starting out on your journey to everlasting love, this photoshoot will enable you to grab a moment in time. GEMSTONE: EMERALD

30^th Year Anniversary – Pearl / Diamond

The pearl represents the 30th wedding anniversary as it demonstrates the beauty, rarity, and endurance of a marriage that has lasted three decades. Pearls are formed over time, layer by layer, which is a fitting metaphor for the depth and strength of a relationship that has stood the test of time. Additionally, pearls are considered timeless and elegant, reflecting the timeless love and enduring commitment of a couple who have spent 30 years together.

Interestingly, there are also floral nods toward each anniversary, with a different flower to represent each of those all-important milestones. For a 30^th Anniversary it is a Lily, and you can make your very own keepsake Lily to mark the occasion at this 3D flower making workshop. A truly delightful way to spend a couple of hours being creative and producing a beautiful addition to your home decor. GEMSTONE: PEARL

40^th Year Anniversary – Ruby / Ruby

The traditional gift for the 40th wedding anniversary is ruby because rubies are considered to symbolise passion, love, and prosperity, all qualities that are often associated with a marriage that has lasted for four decades. The deep red colour of rubies also represents the enduring flame of love that has kept the couple together for so many years.

Personally, I like the notion that in many cultures, rubies are believed to have protective qualities, guarding against negative energies, and strengthening the bond between partners, making them a fitting symbol for celebrating 40 years of marriage.

Thinking along the Ruby theme, I would recommend something which embodies the colour, none more so than this stunning Luxury Vintage, Estate Red Wine & Cheese Tasting Experience. They'll be presented with a selection of up to 7 exclusive red wines, each expertly paired with a premium cheese to excite your palate! Take a seat, relax, and revel in life's luxuries at the exclusive venue located at the Edwardian Grafton Fitzrovia in London. Another recommendation to consider is the Vibrancy and captivating shows on London’s West End in a London West End Theatre Show for 2. The link into Ruby? Well Moulin Rouge! Of course! GEMSTONE: RUBY

50^th Year Anniversary – Gold / Gold

Known as the Golden Anniversary, this really requires no explanation into the traditional and modern theories behind this wedding gift of choice. It marks half a century of love and devotion to each other and commemorates many of the joys shared in the union. Gold is considered timeless, valuable, and resilient, much like a marriage that has lasted for five decades. It represents the strength, purity, and beauty of the relationship that has stood the test of time.

What better gift for a couple celebrating such a milestone, than the gift of flight. Take to the skies in a Hot Air Balloon Experience for Two. Launching around Sunrise or Sunset, with the golden hues of light on their face, you will have gifted them an experience which will create memories they will talk about for years to come. GEMSTONE: GOLDEN JUBILEE

60^th Year Anniversary – Diamond / Diamond

We all know the Song… Diamonds Are Forever. Never more so is this significant to make such a huge timeframe of love and dedication. Renowned for their durability and timeless beauty, Diamonds make a fitting symbol for celebrating the significance of 6 decades of marriage. There is also something to say about the rarity of hitting such a milestone being associated with the known rarity of diamonds.

There are many gifting ideas for such a momentous occasion and if you are not in the market for splurging on diamonds themselves, you might consider a representation of such a stone. For example, you could take the sparkle of the diamond and treat the happy couple to a sparkling wine or Prosecco Gift Hamper accompanied by chocolate truffles and much more, all presented beautifully, befitting of any celebratory gift.

If you are seeking something a little more experience based to mark the occasion, why not upgrade that sparkle to champagne, with the Three Course Champagne Celebration Dining at Marco Pierre White's London Steakhouse Company. Celebrate your 60th anniversary with an unforgettable gift from Marco. Indulge in the finest quality, locally sourced ingredients as you sip on a glass of bubbly together. Your experience includes a special celebration plate, a charming fountain candle, and a beautiful LSC apron to cherish as a memento of this extraordinary occasion. Cheers to sixty years of love and togetherness!

GEMSTONE: DIAMOND JUBILEE

Celebrating an anniversary is an ideal opportunity to mark significant milestones in a relationship and a time to reflect on the journey shared, the challenges overcome, and the growth experienced together. Choosing to celebrate with an experience rather than a material gift can enhance the significance of the occasion. Experiences create memories that last a lifetime and often have a deeper impact than material possessions. They allow couples to create new memories together, strengthen their bond, and break away from routine.

Should you be in a couple celebrating that all important date or looking to purchase for a couple to mark a significant milestone, you may want to choose an experience less tailored to the specific traditions and more bespoke to the couple in question. Here at WonderDays we have identified our top picks, ideal for marking any such anniversary celebratory occasion: